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    • Boat – Life Balance

      Posted at 9:42 am by Heidi Benson Stagg, on June 5, 2018


      34321066_10216194796644007_1630616168223997952_oBoats require work. Lots of it. Being exposed to the elements 24/7 means that Aaron and Heidi have to constantly be on the lookout for damage by rain or sun, as well as keeping up on regular chores and replacing my worn parts. I guess you could say that I’m a high maintenance sort of girl. 😉 

      This past weekend Aaron replaced one of my 39-year-old bronze portholes with a brand new stainless steel one. I have three portholes, all accessed by the cockpit; two look into the cabin, one on either side of the companionway (our front door), and the third looks from the cockpit well (side of the floor) into the aft stateroom. Portholes are windows that open. Portlights are windows that are permanently fixed. All leak if not installed and sealed properly, which is not a good thing. I also have four hatches (windows that open up from my cabin top) for ventilation.

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    • Legacy

      Posted at 12:01 am by Heidi Benson Stagg, on May 31, 2018

      imgres“I hate school. I don’t know why I have to go,” she pouted, sitting in the passenger seat next to her mother and looking out the window.”

      Anne bit her tongue and kept her eyes on the road. They had this conversation at least once a week since Eliza flunked out of her freshman year at the state university and transferred to the local community college. She had been a good high school student but it was the extracurricular activities that she loved. Eliza served on the monthly dance committee and swim team and on a whim tried out for the golf team because it looked fun, never having held a club until the week before tryouts. She cheered for all the sports teams and had a wide circle of friends. Overall, she was a happy, well-behaved teenager but had no idea what she wanted to do beyond high school.

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    • “Hard” Work

      Posted at 8:58 am by Heidi Benson Stagg, on May 29, 2018

      Why do Heidi and Aaron bust their butts to do work on me that they can pay someone else to do? We get that question often. The major reason is peace of mind.

      I’m not just a pleasure craft for weekend sailing. I am Home. Boatwork is very specialized and we want to make sure it is done to our high standards. It’s not like having a new roof put on and then discovering that it leaks and calling a company to come fix it. We won’t have that option in the middle of the ocean if I take on water because of a poorly installed thru-hull. Knowing that my bottom is sturdy and sealed tight is essential to our peace of mind. 

      Every three years I need to be put on the “hard” so my hull, keel and rudder can be inspected, repaired if needed, and painted. It’s also a good time to check out the propellor and all through-hulls. Being on the “hard” is taking a boat out of the water via a hoist and propping her up on stilts in a boat yard.

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    • Easy Peasy Coconut Thai Curry Chicken

      Posted at 12:01 am by Heidi Benson Stagg, on May 24, 2018
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      I love Trader Joe’s … I can create a month’s worth of menus just by walking the aisles and exploring the interesting ingredients. When we cruise, we’ll primarily eat whatever is fresh and the locals are eating, but I’ll always have creative canned options for long passages and when we want something different. This recipe is quick, full of flavor and served in a bowl, making it a great off-shore dish.

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    • You Live on a Boat?! Part 4: Where do you keep your stuff?

      Posted at 9:56 pm by Heidi Benson Stagg, on May 21, 2018

      “You live on a boat?! How is that? Does it move all the time? How does the weather affect you? Where do you keep your stuff? Do you have electricity? How about fresh water? Do you have a real kitchen? How do you deal with waste? Are you connected to cable and WiFi? Does your dog like living on a boat? What happens when you go sailing?”

      Where do you keep your stuff? Heidi and Aaron had just came out of long marriages in houses filled with lots of material possessions when they moved aboard in 2009. They left their furniture with the exes, so there really wasn’t any big purge to move onboard. They do have a storage loft with stuff that doesn’t belong or fit on me … Breakable items, photo albums, cherished childhood mementos and a bunch of accumulated crap in general. They are slowly going through the lot to pass on to family, donate or trash. Their goal is to have perhaps four boxes of items that will be stored with Aaron’s dad when we go cruising. That’s it. Everything else will fit in or on me.

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    • Superstitious Sailors

      Posted at 12:01 am by Heidi Benson Stagg, on May 17, 2018

      images-3“Superstitions are a bunch of malarkey. You can’t ward off bad luck with a spell. Why even bother with the whole thing?” Lisa asked while sanding the transom of the boat on stilts in the boatyard.

      Mark replied, “Malarkey? Who uses that word?”

      “My grandmother. She was a wise woman,” Lisa answered.

      “Well, I’m not taking any chances. As soon as we’ve finished the bottom paint and have her back in the water we’re doing the de-naming and re-naming ceremony,” said Mark.

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    • You Live on a Boat?! Part 3: How does the weather affect you?

      Posted at 7:52 pm by Heidi Benson Stagg, on May 14, 2018

      “You live on a boat?! How is that? Does it move all the time? How does the weather affect you? Where do you keep your stuff? Do you have electricity? How about fresh water? Do you have a real kitchen? How do you deal with waste? Are you connected to cable and WiFi? Does your dog like living on a boat? What happens when you go sailing?”

      Back to our series of answers to the questions Heidi and Aaron get when people find out they live on a sailboat full-time.

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      How does the weather affect you? Living on a boat is living in tune with Mother Nature and Father Neptune. We all adore the dry, warm summer months because it means having the hatches and doors open to the air and light. Heidi, Aaron and Tiki spend lots of time having meals in the cockpit and laying in bean bags and the hammock on deck. In the winter, we mainly stay closed up and the only contact with the weather is the quarter mile walk Heidi and Aaron have from my berth to the parking lot. (Which is why we will be circumnavigating primarily to warm climates!)

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    • Tex-Mex Chili Bake

      Posted at 12:01 am by Heidi Benson Stagg, on May 10, 2018
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      This is a quick and easy meal with lots of flavor and options. In this version, I used some fresh ingredients that could be eliminated if we were offshore and had exhausted our produce and meat selections (which happens during long crossings or in uninhabited harbors). We don’t have a freezer, so we’ll be stocking up on dried and canned foods for these passages.

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    • GrandBoys on Board!

      Posted at 10:29 pm by Heidi Benson Stagg, on May 7, 2018

      Taking a break from the “You Live on a Boat?!” series this week to write about our favorite honorary crew: Cody and Matthew.

      I’m large in terms of the average cruising boat. I’m 42 ft long, and a reasonable size for typical cruisers is 36 ft. Of course, many have gone cruising in both smaller and larger boats. Aaron specifically looked for a boat in the 40 ft range, knowing that the majority of time they are sailing, it is just the two of them.

      Wood ArtMy raised cabin top and wide girth add to the spaciousness below, while the small, fully enclosed cockpit doesn’t invite sloppy waves or confused seas onboard. With only one full stateroom, the aft quarterberth is cozy for visitors but a bit tough for long-term living aboard. (Ask Heidi’s son … he lived part-time with us during his pre- and early teens, but wanted far more privacy when he got older.)

      I’ve been told that I’m the perfect boat for double-handed circumnavigating, which we’ll put to the test next year. For now, Heidi and Aaron have found that my overall living space is perfect for dockside life for the two of them and Tiki.

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    • The Shape of Grief

      Posted at 12:01 am by Heidi Benson Stagg, on May 3, 2018

      IMG_7304“Heidi, my wee love! I was just thinking about you,” she’d sing out in her Irish lilt as I walked through her front door. Taking my face in her hands she’d kiss my cheeks and lips and forehead.

      “Come sit and tell me about your day,” she’d say as she set the kitchen table with china cups and saucers, the little porcelain milk jug and sugar bowl, and a plate of cookies or Little Debbie treats.

      She was 4 ft, 11 inches with bright ginger locks that just brushed her collar. She favored burnt orange lipstick and cinnamon red blush, clip on rhinestone earrings and animal print blouses. She made Florence cake and lemon meringue pies from scratch and always, always had a kettle of tea brewing on the stovetop.

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    Heidi Benson Stagg

    Heidi Benson Stagg

    I live aboard a 42 ft Tayana Vancouver sailboat, hull #5 laid in 1979, with my husband and little dog. We left our berth of 15 yeas in Alameda, California in the Fall of 2022 and now live in La Paz, Mexico. I enjoy blogging about our journey, cooking in my tiny kitchen and writing short stories.

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